Most married couples don’t picture themselves splitting from their spouse after exchanging vows. The fact of the matter, however, is that nearly half of the American marriages end in divorce. For some, it comes as a surprise. One minute everything seems fine, and the next their spouse is having them served with divorce papers. Others have the luxury of mentally preparing, in which the couple has outwardly discussed the option, or their tumultuous or toxic behaviors create an “any day now” kind of environment where divorce is to be expected. Regardless of how a divorce is initiated, it often leaves an individual feeling helpless, vulnerable, and alone. It’s a difficult situation to navigate without the right support by your side.  It is often emotionally and mentally exhausting. That’s why it’s important to identify and hire a quality Family Law professional to guide you through the process. What’s Mine Stays Mine One of the first orders of business in a divorce is putting together a comprehensive list of marital assets. This might include finances including checking and savings accounts, retirement accounts, investment portfolios, real estate properties, business assets, cars and other vehicles, and personal belongings. Who gets the house? Does your partner deserve a portion of your 401(k) that you’ve personally funded for years, even before he/she was in your life? Who keeps the dog who you adopted but who grew fond of your spouse over the years? The answers to these questions are not simple, and the two parties in the divorce are often too close to the situation to objectively determine what is fair. With a well-qualified Family Law attorney in your corner, you have the benefit of an objective party who understands the law and how the court and the state will view the assets. Your attorney will always have your best interests in mind and advise what will most likely be awarded during proceedings and what is best to negotiate outside of court. Your attorney will do her best to make sure what’s yours stays yours. Knowledge is Power When the divorce gets ugly is when a Family Law attorney is most important. She brings years of experience to the table and has seen many divorces unfold firsthand. She knows which strategy will yield the best results for you. In these cases, when your partner has truly wronged you, your Family Law attorney is there by your side to guide you on the path to victory. Fair is fair, and it feels great to be vindicated against a formerly toxic spouse. Bagner Law, PC If you need an excellent Family Law attorney in the San Leandro area, you need Vonnah Bagner. She has years of experience and has watched many divorces unfold, so she brings tons of experience and insight to the trickiest of divorces. If you’re feeling alone and overwhelmed, Vonnah Bagner is there to take your hand and guide you through. Find out more today. Contact Bagner Law, PC now! If you have family woes, and you don’t know what to do, Vonnah Bagner is the attorney for you!